Husband has left me for a younger woman

[Bex]

I mean realistically what are the chances that this affair will last?

I would say zero to none. However, he doesn't want to work on the M. That's the thing! It's so much easier to start fresh......and with a fresher gal. I don't know anything could hurt a hurt worse than a spouse dumping his W for a younger version. Unless, it would be for her to get a younger man (ha). However, I don't advise that you get into any type of revenge tactics.

Stick with the board, b/c you'll get great support here. There are many others on the board who know exactly how you feel.

That's good that you think zero to none and everybody that knows him / us feels the same! They all think it's total madness- absolutely nobody could see that we were "unhappy" (including me!) it just feels like he's suddenly lost all sight of reality!
But unfortunately you're also right that he doesn't want to work on the marriage, I really hope that this will change once reality kicks in of what he's done