Husband has left me for a younger woman

[Bex]

I've definitely been thinking whether it's a mid life crisis- in the months leading up to this we moved back to the uk, we had a new baby , I was diagnosed Roth an inherited heart condition and he took a Massive demotion job wise and to be honest it was rough for all
Of us! I feel like he has just suddenly freaked out and ran away from his life and responsibilities..
He had a very very difficult childhood, dad had an affair and left when he was a baby (!) mum died when he was 5 and he was put into care, I feel like my health issues have been a sub conscious thing that makes him want to jolt as what he went though with his mum, 7 years ago my mum was diagnosed with cancer and a couple of weeks later he bolted (no affair) but just ran away from me for a year! Came back saying he'd made the biggest mistake of his life.. It's all very coincidental and is like a pattern of behaviour