Back on these forums again 7

[Mona52]

Bizzaro world continues. Normally, when my H pisses me off, I lash out. It is the pattern, we both understand it.

My H bashed me bad yesterday. I was at work, my D15 was stuck in the city next to ours and needed picked up. My mom's car is in the garage, so I had no one.

I broke down and asked H.

He went to get her. I thanked him (ewww)

Apparently, while driving her back, he apologized for having to shut of her and D17's cell phone. He told her I am taking 60% of his income. He said he cant even text her because I take all of his money. He said he cannot invite her over his house or see her or talk to her because I am taking all of his money.

(For the record, my child support is 18% of his income)

Okay, let the pattern begin.
H pissed me off. Time to wait a day and lash out at him!

Hold on. I just dont care. He can say what he wants.

I grumbled a bit yesterday about how unfair things were and dropped the whole thing.

I got a text (2 actually) from jerkface today! It has been months since he texted me. I have texted him for help, but he only texted me a few months ago to ask for money and I said no.

He is looking for a fight. He is trying to lash out at me! HA!

How about I dont answer his texts until tomorrow. The day after he pisses me off is lash out day and I wont be pulled into a fight today.

Now I have 24 hours to figure out how to talk to him so I dont sound like a freaking mommy, so I dont sound like I am criticizing him, and I need to find something to praise him about. Okay, they said DB'ing was hard, but that is impossible.

"I am so proud of you for breathing. You are doing great at that, keep it up."

HAHA