Need support navigating the change in my marriage

[G8r]

Thank you Mona52. It's definitely a learned response that I'm sure will improve with more practice.

I read that you got snowed in. I miss that from when I used to live up north. Glad to read that you made lemonade out of the situation.

[G8r]

Hot water fused popped because it's on same circuit as our dryer. I mentioned that it had popped and I was going to flip it back on. When I came back upstairs, WW said that I accused her of blowing the fuse intentionally. I responded that I was sorry that she felt that way, I now that it was an accident. Her response was that's ok, all you do is accuse me of things these days. I am happy to say that I didn't respond and just left the room. Yay me!!!! Ignoring her is getting slightly easier. I'm not mad, upset or angry. I just am. Time for some dinner.

[rich4j]

G8r

Didn't you also cause it to snow up and down the eastern seaboard too? I think that was your fault :-) ugh

[G8r]

Rofl. Shhhhh... People aren't supposed to know that. Thanks for the laugh rich4j.

[G8r]

WW texted me for a 4th morning in a row. This time about whether or not I'm going to pick up D3 from day care because I told WW I had plans with D3 for tonight (going to circus) but I didn't mention anything about when. It didn't occur to me since circus starts at 7:30. I responded that I can get her. She replied that she can as well but wanted to know if I wanted to spend time with her. What does she think I will be doing tonight? So I responded I will get her.

She replied, thank you for communicating with me. I should have left that alone but I didn't. I asked her if she needed me to pick up D3 tomorrow just so I could thank her for communicating with me. Why do I do stupid things like that? I had been good for 3 days and then blow it my making a stupid comment like that. Time to dust myself off again, this DB stuff is hard. She finished that conversation by asking me for the 3rd time when I'm moving out. I ignored that comment since I told her the 1st time that I'm not moving out.

I'm also feeling bad because she mentioned that she'll be working on one of our bathrooms this weekend. I'd love to help and I wish it was a project we were working on together but asking her to help won't help my sitch. Only would get her angry. She's moving on without me regardless of what I do.

I know that I shouldn't be but I'm envious of the people on the board who have shot at R. I realize they have their own sets of problems but they have 1 thing that I want more than anything right now. A chance. Doesn't mean my WW and I would be able to R but that's what I feel I need for closure. I ignored WW for too long emotionally and physically without realizing it. Now that I realize that, it is eating me up to not be able to do anything.

[shreeve]

G8r, I can relate. I think any small chance would give me some hope for saving my M.

[G8r]

Great night tonight. Took D3 to circus. She had a blast. I got so much enjoyment just watching her dance to the music and look in amazement at all the stuff going on around her. Definitely a night to remember.

[Bear007]

Great night tonight. Took D3 to circus. She had a blast. I got so much enjoyment just watching her dance to the music and look in amazement at all the stuff going on around her. Definitely a night to remember.

Hope you took pictures!

For evidence later, because I took my (then 4y old) daughter to Disney on Ice, and few years later she claimed that she was never on that show and that I was fabricating stories.

[G8r]

Hi Bear007. I did take pictures. Like I've heard some people say, pics or it didn't happen.

[G8r]

Got stuck in traffic today and couldn't pick up D3 from day care like I told WW so I had to call her and ask her to get D3. She was pleasant enough on the phone but, my goodness, was she spewing when she got home. The more I ignored her, the angrier she got. At one point I left room and told her that she wouldn't talk to me the way she was. She countered my repeating my line to me which I ignored. She then decided that she was going to rake D3 with her to trivia so I came back into the room and told her to get. That didn't go over well with her. She was standing there with her hands on her hips saying excuse me? I only told her to get because she was leaving anyway and she was in full on rage mode in front of D3. My ignoring her after that and trying to escort D3 into another room didn't fly with her so she followed. Grrrr... D3 went to bathroom and she continental to spew. I eventually whispered to her, zip it. Stop arguing in front of D3. She had audacity to tell me it was my fault because I didn't trattoria her right like it had never treated her right. Aye, aye, aye. Oh well. Let's See what the rest of the night holds.