i wanted to be clear that I was not saying you were by any means being condescending, but it is like they do not want to hear our thoughts at the moment unless it is just justifying what they think otherwise we are coming across that way.

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15