Thanks V. With hurt/betrayal, no apology, nor action can ever make up for it. Humans are not capable of atoning for their own actions behaviors - it can never be enough. Never. That's why Jesus Christ had to do it for us. I also don't want to deny my own failings. No, they didn't *cause* his choices, but they didn't help and my continuing them doesn't help now either. I'm confused as to how to show compassion to someone who rejects it anyway, but still desperately cries for it. "In sickness and in health" haunts me. Not that I can "fix" him but I cannot deal with it either.
Me: 42, H: 38 Married: 12 years (second M for me) 14D, 9D 2015 EA (PA??), porn addict, *pastor/counselor* MLC
At a counselor, he said he wanted the marriage but not to work on himself w/a IC. Piecing?
