G,
isit possible she is taking the way you are messaging her as condescending? Like you are looking down at her? I know you are saying you both are trying to be better, but continuing to say these things to her may make her feel you belive you are on a higher level than her.

I am not sue how I would take the communication that you both have.

Hell I dont know what to think at all right now as I have no communication.

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15