Sorry you are here and there is great support/stories here
I have read a few that have gotten to the D stage/filing and still saved the marriage
I am sure there are divorced stories too that work out but I will try to go back and find the link of success stories
Personally i am in a position of a STBX as papers are coming. I am angry & resentful so not sure I personally could R in the short term. Lots of things I need to figure out for myself as I am sure you do too
If you keep takng care of yourself you never know what could happen!
_________________________ Me-48 Spouse-WAW 52 Married for 10 years D7 ILYBNILWY 7/15 Suspect EA/PA 12/15 No confirmation/denial She files 1/2016 Working towards the Big D ...still in progress....