Hard to summarize... Me and H M almost 19years now. He left me once before for three years, I DB'ed, got him back. That was like 9 years ago. H has had many OW. His current one lives far away.
We have 3 kids, he never contacts.
I am not going to say I am done DB'ing, but I dont want anything to do with H. I am actively seeking a replacement H.
I spend alot of time with Chris, but he does not qualify as a replacement. I work full time, go to college full time, work part-time and me and the kids live with my crazy mother.
No depression is allowed on this thread and no matter what jerkface does, laughter is required to be here. Yes, that is the best way to start a new thread. My goal for the next thread is no jerkface talk allowed, lol. Wish me luck on that.
Me: 42 H: 45 M: 18 yrs T: 20 yrs D: 17 D: 15 S: 12 I kicked him out 8/21/15 I will DB until March 21st 2017, that is it!
Not sure how you juggle what you juggle with work, school and kids but my hats off to you! And glad you have a deadline of your end of DB'ing
_________________________ Me-48 Spouse-WAW 52 Married for 10 years D7 ILYBNILWY 7/15 Suspect EA/PA 12/15 No confirmation/denial She files 1/2016 Working towards the Big D ...still in progress....
Too much snow! 31 inches....nothing like shoveling, working with neighbors and then sleigh riding with D and then having to hang in thehouse with the STBX....
_________________________ Me-48 Spouse-WAW 52 Married for 10 years D7 ILYBNILWY 7/15 Suspect EA/PA 12/15 No confirmation/denial She files 1/2016 Working towards the Big D ...still in progress....
I wanted to, but it looks like March and April they are in Nevada. Way too far for me. We are looking into alternative plans
Had an awesome night last night. H bashed me hard (with words) to my D so I knew I might spiral. So I played Rock Band 3 with D for hours, then Skyrim with S, then Call of Duty with other daughter. I did not cook dinner, or clean a thing. We just gamed and laughed. After Call of Duty, I felt brave so I let D17 drive on the streets with all the snow. It was so scary! But she did well.
I sent a text earlier in the day to Chris. I knew he was at work, but I just sort of let him know I was having a real bad day. (At the time I was). He never replied when he got off work. No, one mistake is not going to bury him, but I want to make sure I dont rose color faults. Being as lonely as I have been these past few months, it would be easy for me to jump too quickly.
S12 is really starting to get a mustache. I asked jerkface 2 months ago to teach S how to shave, jerkface said no. I asked my BIL today, he also said no. BIL said I need to get jerkface to do it. I told BIL jerkface said no, but BIL does not believe me.
So... yeah, I guess I will figure something out.
Me: 42 H: 45 M: 18 yrs T: 20 yrs D: 17 D: 15 S: 12 I kicked him out 8/21/15 I will DB until March 21st 2017, that is it!
OK, I think we can find some of the DB men to stand in for the Chippendales and meet us somewhere in PA/MD/NJ/VA. I personally think that would be a lot more fun than those fake Chippendales guys, and we can all practice our validation skills together so it will be educational and very DB.
