Thank you flight! I have been getting so much better at coping with the pain, it does not completely take my focus now and seems to occur less and less each day. My schedule is packed with dinner with friends / support groups / counseling / gatherings - I am feeling a good deal of confidence and have a great hope for my future. I have so many great friends that take the time for me and are there to help / listen. I guess I'm seeing that I may have lost my marriage, but I have a lot of wonderful gifts in my life and a positive future.


M 43 W 45
M 10.5 T 15
S 26 D 17 (previous relationships)
ILYB 12/25/15 + asks for D
Confirm affair 1/10/16
W has D ready to sign, but agrees to wait for refinancing to go through (I get a house!)