Bex, it's not over until YOU say it's over. You can continue to work on and fight for your marriage as long as you choose to. There have been people on this forum who have gone through with the divorce and then ended up remarrying each other again afterwards. Never give up until you decide that it's time. Right now your H has his head in the affair fog and that fog can be really thick sometimes. His thinking isn't clear and he is confused. It's good that he's starting to take notice though. At least it's a start! Keep working on your GAL activities....but, watch those dating sites or you could end up getting sucked into an affair of your own without meaning to.
M:45 H:48 M:11 No kids BD:Sept'15 EA:Confirmed 1wk later PA: Oct'15 12 '15 2 wk R Just kidding, H wants NC 12 '15 H back w/OW 4 '15 R &still working on it