That's a shame about the group. Is there a contact person and any possible interest in reviving it? Also NMMNG groups exist worldwide (I'm not suggesting you're a reforming nice guy btw, but that's a way of meeting new male friends perhaps?) Also Meetups is worldwide and perhaps there might be something locally. And reconnecting with old friends is worthwhile too. Perhaps something linked to your S's activities (other dads?) or through work?? Just a few thoughts anyway..

One thing I have found with GAL is it takes a while to do some groundwork and you come across a few dead ends on the way and it can all feel a bit frustrating. Then you have the build up to trying things the first time with strangers. It isn't always easy, but once settled into a few things, they can lead to other things (as you chat to people about what is going on locally) and before you know it you have some new friends and activities you genuinely enjoy going on.

But you do need to overcome inner resistance and be willing to step beyond your comfort zone. Good luck - and if you focus on the challenge of GAL, you are not focusing on your W.... smile

Take care xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus