Hi Lou, I'm sorry to hear about your health troubles. I always think it is worth reading to see if you can make any lifestyle or diet changes that will help. Also, as you say, the job sitch may add to your pain and a change might benefit you.

Sorry about the trip, but glad you will still take some time off. Hopefully you can do some gentle and nourishing things on a small budget and still enjoy yourself.

As for H, it is so useful to read the sitches of others and see how things unfold. As you say, months ago H was fully 'in' and now seems to be processing again. I would just give him some space, dropping in every so often to say hi or send him some light anecdote or news. Time will tell how things will unfold further.

Take care, and good to hear an update - I've been thinking about you xx


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus