Hi M, I agree that your H's reaction is in response to your message to him. The status quo was probably pretty comfortable just now for him and you just tipped up the apple cart. I would agree with others, just take your time and what you truly want will become clearer.

Take care xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus