Bex, I'm really sorry that you have to be here, but you have found a great place for support and advice. There are lots of people on here going through/or have gone through the exact same thing you are going through now. It's amazing that all these wayward spouses say and do the exact same things. It's like they all read the same book and they are quoting it word for word. You are doing exactly what you should be doing though, and it sounds like you're doing awesome job at it! Keep it up! Are you getting out and GALing? Does your H live close by? If so, change up your routine a bit. Go out more. Find new activities. Anything to make him wonder where you are and what you're doing. The point is to make him think you're just fine, that you have had an awakening and are moving on with your life without him. Make sure you keep posting so you can get advice and support. Good luck!


M:45 H:48
M:11
No kids
BD:Sept'15
EA:Confirmed 1wk later
PA: Oct'15
12 '15 2 wk R
Just kidding, H wants NC
12 '15 H back w/OW
4 '15 R &still working on it