I didn't know "affair down" was a thing. I love it. Annab, your comment about H being embarrassed was hysterical! Imagine how OW felt!!
Wouldn't it be great if right about now we could get "employee of the year" or have a letter to the editor published, or win the lottery or get a promotion or SOMETHING that would boost our confidence even more? Maybe we don't need that though. We have a shared history with our wayward spouses, and that's a lot to compete with. We made it work for X years and they are just the shiny new penny. Pennies aren't worth much.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat