Rollercoaster at rest: now what?

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Thtat's the same in my situation as well. What is he thinking!?! I do not have a lot of self confidence, but I do know that I am a smart and compassionate person who ALWAYS takes care of everyone else before doing anything for myself. I don't think I'm super attractive, but not ugly either. But, this OW, I just don't get what he sees in her at all. Aside from her looks, she is the complete opposite of what he likes. He hates tattoos...OW has one. He doesn't like women with short hair.....OW has short hair. He hates people that drink (his first W was an alcoholic)....OW is in a bar with a drink in her hand in almost every pic I've seen of her. He had a fit thinking that I might have a Facebook page (I don't and never have)....OW is on Facebook all the time. <---- my friend might have looked her up for me on Facebook, lol. Anyway, it just goes on and on. How can he WANT to be with someone that is so opposite of what he likes? And, how can he pick her over me....TWICE???? I know, I know, his stupid fragil ego needs stroking. I know without a doubt that he would never put up with this if MY ego needed stroking!!