I want to mention that a huge mistake I made at the early time of husband's midlife crisis; I encourage him to see a therapist, that therapist have no idea of midlife crisis, the very last comment she ever gave to my husband is - listen to the voice of your heart... and things went wild, husband moved out, he had physical affair with a young woman, or I should say husband's pain is growing to some level that he can not hide from it anymore ?
I just want to tell the left behind spouse - do not encourage your midlife spouse to see therapist at the early time of his crisis.
