You definitely ARE way ahead of the game with just a month under your belt! Keep going. There will be setbacks, but if you have a lot going on in your life, that will help you. Continue to take care of yourself and watch from a distance and see what happens.
H:54 W:46 D:11 D:21 M:12 BD:1/15 In-house Separation 2/15 DB started 7/15, W sees consistency 9/15 Dropping the rope and having her leave 2/16, moves 5/16 Reconciliation 1/17 Obviously still struggling