Wife wants to leave but still at home.

[Flight]

Think of whether what she is doing respects or disrespects you. Do not accept disrespect. Her out of the master bedroom. perfect. You doing a 180 and GAL, the same. Move on as if you are single and she is just your roommate. It is the best thing you can do in this situation. Go back to Sandi's rules. Don't let her back into your life until she knows beyond a doubt she will do what it takes to fix what is broken in her. In the meantime, you keep working on you.