Wife wants to leave but still at home.

[rich4j]

Si
Sorry you are going thru this....

I am a rather newbie here and don't have the EA/PA thing (at least that I could uncover) but seems like you are doing what you should be with DB'ing.

What I have learned is the WAW/H is going to blame you for all that is wrong in the world and relationship...period. My STBX has gone to the extremes to remind me and having to live under the same roof is brutal.

There are things you are following that are working so keep up the good work and stay the course. I wish I had this support and guidance when my sitch started so I would listen to those who have been thru the muck and its great advice.