If he offers to help you, I think you should just be grateful and let him take care of you. Maybe when he sees your gratitude he'll remember how nice it is to have a spouse to see you through the hard times, someone who always has your back. You can cry when he leaves. I bet he does still value your opinion.
I don't know your whole story, inpain, but it's not over yet. IMHO, keep DBing, even if that means accepting his help when you need it. How can that hurt? Well, it can hurt you if it makes you remember what you're missing, but you're going to remember it anyway. I hope you feel better soon, I really do.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
