It is quite a stalemate regarding who should file. Maybe her lawyer is giving her the same advice that yours is (whoever files pays the fees).
I'm going to play devil's advocate for a moment. Are you sure you are ready to divorce? You say that you are done, and I believe you. I also know that the shoulda, woulda and coulda along with the what ifs are tough too. Getting some support to help with clarity and goals will be time well spent.
Knowing what to do and what not to do at this point is crucial. Feel free to give me a call at 303-444-7004 to discuss how we can best help you determine what to do next.
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