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thx....i realize it would be great to control what my D thinks and how she reacts to this all but I just can't.

It is too exhausting. I am physically exhausted (lost about 10 lbs ) and mentally....almost hit a van the other day being in a fog. Shoveling out of 30in snow didn't help either with my STBX in the house ready to jump at any inequity she saw for the day


I wonder if it's just me or if you misinterpret my posts?

I was trying to encourage you not to worry about your child not wanting to go wherever you live.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!