Ugghhh, have I mentioned this is hard?

[SciDad]

Something I just realized- my wife had started getting really into working out when I discovered the om. It was actually part of why i started going to the gym. Turns out she was probably trying to look good for him (although they also went to the gym together)

Now she's barely ever exercising. I personally think my wife still looks good, but is it a good idea for me to encourage her to go to the gym or should I not say anything? I'd love for her to get some self esteem back, but I also don't want her to feel like she needs to look better for anyone but herself. Mind you, the farthest I'd go is to suggest we aLloyd go together (they will babysit the kids for 1 hour).