Talk, they will listen, and you will get guidance.

IC's that are good will understand that there are dozens of layers to the sitch. Layers to an onion. Peel one back and you find another.
Sorting out your feelings and recognizing the situation from a 1,000 ft perspective is key. A couple sessions in with an IC and I got traction.

Good luck! And listen to what they have to say!

M46, EXWW46
M15 T17
D20, S19, D13
M - Addiction since 1998
W EA/PA #1 2013/2014
W EA #2 June 2015...
BD 1 Big D talk 9/15
BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15
Served D 1/22/16
Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)