I wonder if you can suspend all R talk for now, and just support him through this, but from a distance that doesn't get you all caught up in his sh!t.
Re: the blame. That's outrageous. He needs help. But for now, I think you need to be the lighthouse. Not beckoning him back, but just the tall, beautiful light shining through the darkness. With conditions, of course.
Hi NYGal...thanks. I know he is heart broken and I did call him. He repeated what he said in his VM. I agreed that we need to make the trip even though I haven't a clue as to how we will afford it.
I asked him just that, by the way. To please not bring "us" up. Keep it about the kids and his mom. He then started in again about me not trusting him and counting condoms. I'm not sure if he even realized that I hung up since he hasn't text saying how rude I am. LOL
I am just wanting some normalcy back. He is right I do not trust him and it is crazy that I count condoms. But he does everything he can to make sure I can't trust him and I don't want a man that makes me feel like if I need to look through things or count condoms. That's why I just hung up. Because me saying that very logical sentence would mean nothing to him.
