I can't avoid it tho as she always opens with a question about the boys. How hard would it have been for her to look in the bags when she got home last night or before she dropped them off at day care today? Why didn't she take things like an eye prescription with her? FYI she broke her glasses 2nd day in her new job. Part of me wants her to talk to me sometimes but a growing part wants a day. For myself. No stress from her. No bs.
You don't get it, guy. She just uses the kids as her excuse to contact you. It may be legit, or it may be her wanting to irritate, however, it is not uncommon for a WW to do what yours is doing. They usually want to keep up with whatever the LBH is doing. Your WW found out what you were doing b/c you told her you were studying for a test. So, she felt okay that you were being a good boy, staying home and studying, instead of being out having fun without her. More importantly, you weren't having fun with a she-person.
If you really want her to stop it, then tell her you want all contact to strictly be kid related (which, she usually finds some way to make it kid related).
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
