I am very sorry to heart outhit mother. That's got to be hard for you, F, and kiddos...more stress on top of stress. Might be easier for you to communicate with him via text at this point. He's probably feeling a bit desperate and will try the lying, pleading, trying to convince, and probably bait you into an arguement. If you just text, it will be easier to only respond to what you want to without having him bombard you with lies and questions.
We are all here for you if you need to talk.
M:45 H:48 M:11 No kids BD:Sept'15 EA:Confirmed 1wk later PA: Oct'15 12 '15 2 wk R Just kidding, H wants NC 12 '15 H back w/OW 4 '15 R &still working on it