Hi Rich, thanks for stopping by!

Yeah, like most everyone here I'm struggling to maintain a balanced view of the situation. On some days and in some ways I can pull back and look at it with a little perspective, but I am heavily influenced by my past, my hopes, and my pain.

The closest I can get is to identify the actions that my wife is making, but leave them as observations only. No interpretations. I suppose this is where being a scientist helps a bit - I never look at data with attachments


Me-38 W-38; T-15 M-12;
S10 and S6
BD - July 2016; EA confirmed; confronted Aug 2015
EA dissolved 12/2016

Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option - Maya Angelou