Yeah, like most everyone here I'm struggling to maintain a balanced view of the situation. On some days and in some ways I can pull back and look at it with a little perspective, but I am heavily influenced by my past, my hopes, and my pain.
The closest I can get is to identify the actions that my wife is making, but leave them as observations only. No interpretations. I suppose this is where being a scientist helps a bit - I never look at data with attachments
Me-38 W-38; T-15 M-12; S10 and S6 BD - July 2016; EA confirmed; confronted Aug 2015 EA dissolved 12/2016
Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option - Maya Angelou