Need support navigating the change in my marriage

[G8r]

Now WW is texting me asking me if I locked her out of our joint bank account. I replied that I hadn't touched our joint accounts. I wanted to ask her if she logged in correctly but didn't. Sure enough she texted a little later that she was a to log in but the account was lower than she thought. No apologies, just more complaints. Fortunately I wasn't expecting one but it still hurts, maybe just not as much. Or maybe that is indication that I still have expectations? Not sure. Either way, I'm happy because I didn't respond to her texts other than the one saying I didn't touch the accounts. In past, I would have responded. Although I wanted to respond today, I asked myself what it would accomplish, so I elected to not respond.