Thanks Job. I am doing some really good thinking and am coming up with some ideas.

I also have been thinking very much of a good friend who's wife decided she wanted a divorce after over 10 years of marriage and a daughter who is the same age. She pushed for a quick D, he did not want it, tried to talk her out of it, but finally gave in. Shortly after, she realized she made a mistake....they are now back together but remain living in 2 different homes. Everyone is happier than ever, it works for them.

I hope that story gives some of you hope. I will keep doing my processing and update once I think some things through....

Thank you for the link Job, I look forward to reading it!

Have a great week everyone smile


Me 48 H 46 S 11
M 2004
BD 8/13
H moved out 2/15
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