First, work is getting me down. I am in the middle of trying to create some efficiency in a workplace situation. I have come up with the best solution, based on parameters given to me by my boss, which saves 210 hours work of work a week. I've now been told that is unacceptable as it doesn't meet the new criteria that has just been decided upon, which means I have to add hours back in, for people who won't be doing any work! I have protested, to such a move, that this task has now been given to my understudies to do. Normally, I would talk this over with my W - but she's not there anymore. That $ucks.
Secondly, my W call up in the middle of this nonsense to tell me she's getting a new telephone deal, which is cheaper, and that she is leaving me with the old one. Again, I protest that this isn't right, but she gets all pissy about it and tells me I am causing problems. I wouldn't mind, but the deal isn't in my name and the money comes out of the old joint bank account, which I have no control of anymore. I could, of course, just refuse to pay the bill, and leave it to come out of W's money. Peeved.
Ten W tells me she's moving, again, to another temporary accommodation location, about five miles from me. So, now what do I do if she requests me to help her move? My natural inclination is to say 'no', but I don't know if this is the best course of action. I appear to be paralysed right now in my actions. My slightly depressed feeling hasn't lifted since she came back on Sunday. Stuck and feeling a bit lame right now.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
