Originally Posted By: Rain75
I'm so upset and I don't even know why. It shouldn't be a shock to my system and yet it is. I just want to shake him awake. He is SUCH a liar!


I am sorry Rain. You have been through so much and don't deserve more. I would go home and work on your GAL and detaching from him. Then, go dark. Just comletely out of the picture. He is cake eating for sure and you don't deserve to be put in that situation. None of us do! Do not put up with it. I would still do what I said in my last post about telling him how to get help, then I would just step out of the picture. And, I DON'T CARE WHAT HE LOOKS LIKE, HE IS NOT WORTH AN STD!!!!! Condoms are better than nothing, but they are not 100% effective. Stop sleeping with him. He needs to step up and show you that he deserves you and right now he doesn't! Just get dressed, hold your head up and leave. You will be okay. You really will. If you want to cry and talk all night, I am here for you. I won't go anywhere. You can do this. Just take a deep breath and start walking.....


M:45 H:48
M:11
No kids
BD:Sept'15
EA:Confirmed 1wk later
PA: Oct'15
12 '15 2 wk R
Just kidding, H wants NC
12 '15 H back w/OW
4 '15 R &still working on it