Judy, If you're reading this, come back and talk to us. We can help you! There are lots of people on here to talk to and get advice from. Sometimes just hearing other's thoughts and opinions helps you come up with a plan and once you get a plan and something to work towards, it helps to make you feel better.
I hope you're doing okay. We sure do miss your words of wisdom and really want to help you like you've helped so many others.
........and, I'm not kidding about coming down there if you need me! All you have to do is say the word. I can give you a hug in person.
M:45 H:48 M:11 No kids BD:Sept'15 EA:Confirmed 1wk later PA: Oct'15 12 '15 2 wk R Just kidding, H wants NC 12 '15 H back w/OW 4 '15 R &still working on it