REALLY trying to detach...but GALing regardless!

[Imlucky]

Hi mb

Ive been no contact for 4 weeks now. Similar to you she came back for 2 or 3 weeks talking about us and missing me then told me she couldnt do this anymore

I also have positives thoughts i really thought we could work things out with time and focussing on our positives and appreciating each other. I thought there were positive feelings to build on. I dont regret selling our home and living apart i didnt really have a choice and i did get all the debts paid out.

I dont know if we can work it out my counsellor has set a goal of july of working on me and working on learning to do things differently. Ive set a goal of no dating until something is decided. We have a 12 mth separation living apart period here before divorce can be granted. Im not going to stand in the way if she chooses that. Ive made my feelings known about us its time to try and let go

I just signed up to beginner ball room classes to get out and socialise and meet new people. That would be stepping out of my comfort zone. Wish me luck!