Rollercoaster at rest: now what?

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NYGal, I am glad that you feel better after your conversation with W. I wouldn't be your friend if I didn't caution you though. When they start talking and saying things that you wanted and desperately needed to hear, it is SO easy to get sucked right back in. They only problem is that they are still confused, so she will eventually spit you back out. Do you remember the pain you felt at BD when you first found out about OW? When she spits you out, you will be RIGHT BACK THERE in a split second. You will be with her and happy thinking your life is great and working out just like you had hoped it would, then right back to square one. It is so painful. Please go slow and do not let that happen to you like it did me. As things progress (if they do), go back and reread my post when I got back here on Jan 1st after he pulled the rug again. Then, remember what a mess I have been the last 3 weeks after I had been doing better. Just please be careful. You deserve to be happy and I do hope this works out for you, just don't rush it.