REALLY trying to detach...but GALing regardless!

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The first month was minimal contact. From Mid aug through the end of october I was full no contact. When I say no contact, I mean no contact... nada. I ignored her bday. Then it was minimal contact through early December when I decided I would not initiate contact again.

What made you decide to go from minimal contact to no contact then back to minimal contact and then no contact again? Was it something that happened or were you just missing her?

She sent a flurry of texts around xmas, then stopped. I sent her a pretty generic one about taxes a few weeks later and she responded and seemed to want to talk more. But I let it go. Then last week she texted me with some temp checks, the first ones I have gotten.

If she responds and wants to communicate with you, why do you not respond at all? How did you know that she was temp checking? What if she is wanting to reestablish contact with you because she wants to reconcile, but now feels like the door is closed?

I had gone through this before with her (we were bf/gf) so I know how it works. I think you are mind reading too much..

When you went through it before, how long did it take you guys to end up back together? What happened that caused you to get back together? Are you still wanting to reconcile with her now, or are you done?

Sorry for all the questions, I really am just trying to figure out how this no contact think might work out one way or the other. Thanks for taking the time to respond to my message.