Judy, I'm so sorry you've had a rough time and dealt with this pain. I know your H has been extra difficult to deal with, but is there a way you can just be polite to him when there's nothing special going on? Not saying hi gives him more power than he should have, I feel.
I was wondering about these charges against you - did you ever get a doctor's statement about the interactions of medications to help them understand that this was not something you could have predicted or expected to happen?
I am so sorry that things are difficult.
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17