Hi Mleigh - just caught up and want to say that I understand your frustration completely.

I know your h is the silent type. The problem is, my h has talked (a lot) through some of his MLC and still it makes NO SENSE. 1/2 the time he contradicts himself (completely) and the other 1/2 he can't remember anything he has said. And all conversations are bizarre.

I hate to say it but even if the MLCer did say anything, unless his actions back it, I think he is just showing a glimpse of what they are thinking in that very exact moment.

Thinking of you.

Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced