Not much new over the past few days. WW has not contacted me since. I was not expecting her to but would not have been surprised if she did.

Regardless if she was temp checking or not, I have to take it as a somewhat positive sign. As DR says, you have to take note of the little things. In my case, it is hard to monitor any progress because we are apart. But she has hit every 'sign post' that I laid out so far even though they are small. I think the next 'signposts' are another out of the blue contact, phone call, and her wanting to meet in person.

I do wonder what she is thinking after our last interaction. It had to have caught her off guard, thrown her for a loop. I wonder what happens next.. something, nothing? I have to be patient. It's hard but I can do it at least until the 1 year mark.

I guess one thing I am unsure of and not sure if I will ever get there, but how do you know when she (and I) is in the right place to maybe give things a try? Know what I mean? As caliguy said, the push pull game is tricky and right now I am trying to just trying to let her pull.