I did read your thread post. It expains what I try to tell my confidants, they dont undetstand the fact we have to take responsibility for our own behaviour that led to where we are, and the fact that we have to learn from it and act on it and become better people, they just say you ate beating yourself up, your a good guy, i just have to smile and say nothing they just dont get it!
H 50 W 46 T 31 M 24 EA 11.11.15 PA not sure. Dx3 Separated 5.12.15 (not legally)