Thanks Zues. This is the dilema we face. It is just not clear cut. She wants to do physical things together she is a lot fitter now than she was when she was with me. Not really sure why she wants to watch me race. I dont think she is getting out much, recons she has not been intimate with anyone else ( is she telling the trueth?) thought it strange she would even mention it, no need to really. Everything i have learned and i still am no clearer on how to handle this sitch. Im just glad i have you guys to run it past.
H 50 W 46 T 31 M 24 EA 11.11.15 PA not sure. Dx3 Separated 5.12.15 (not legally)