Thanks Zues.
This is the dilema we face. It is just not clear cut.
She wants to do physical things together she is a lot fitter now than she was when she was with me.
Not really sure why she wants to watch me race.
I dont think she is getting out much, recons she has not been intimate with anyone else ( is she telling the trueth?) thought it strange she would even mention it, no need to really.
Everything i have learned and i still am no clearer on how to handle this sitch.
Im just glad i have you guys to run it past.


H 50
W 46
T 31
M 24
EA 11.11.15
PA not sure.
Dx3
Separated 5.12.15 (not legally)