Hey Zues
I did read the posts. The card one was interesting.
Im not really sure what to read into her actions. Im not really one to invest time into something thats dead. I mean she wants to come watch me when im racing my bicycle, she never wanted to do that when we were together, why now, i dont umderstand it.
I now understand a lot more about the issues she had with me and how it affected her loosing her love for me, and the things i could have done for myself that would have lessened the problems we had. I dont think she has understood the same concept for herself.
I am in two minds about weather i should go down the friends path, i think if its over it should be over and get on with your new life otherwise are you moving on? Or just living in the past, i mean i can still talk to her, but doing things together is that taking it a step too far for a seperated or divorced couple?
It can complicate any new relationship in the future, this is what im struggling with if there is no future to it, should i invest in it?


H 50
W 46
T 31
M 24
EA 11.11.15
PA not sure.
Dx3
Separated 5.12.15 (not legally)