Hey Zues I did read the posts. The card one was interesting. Im not really sure what to read into her actions. Im not really one to invest time into something thats dead. I mean she wants to come watch me when im racing my bicycle, she never wanted to do that when we were together, why now, i dont umderstand it. I now understand a lot more about the issues she had with me and how it affected her loosing her love for me, and the things i could have done for myself that would have lessened the problems we had. I dont think she has understood the same concept for herself. I am in two minds about weather i should go down the friends path, i think if its over it should be over and get on with your new life otherwise are you moving on? Or just living in the past, i mean i can still talk to her, but doing things together is that taking it a step too far for a seperated or divorced couple? It can complicate any new relationship in the future, this is what im struggling with if there is no future to it, should i invest in it?
H 50 W 46 T 31 M 24 EA 11.11.15 PA not sure. Dx3 Separated 5.12.15 (not legally)