Why go out and meet her needs every time? Let her be for now. If she really wants to talk to you, she will come find you. Just my opinion though....this is twice in a row that youve been around her and YOU have gone up to HER to initiate conversation. Why not let her come to you for once?
Actually, I would say that she did come find me, and that she initiated the conversation. It's not like I waved her down. She was right under my window looking up at me. But I hear you, Azzork.
From what I understand, she walks by your building fairly regularly. I don't think she "came to find you". To me, the scared squirrel came out of the woods and sat down on the grass, then you got up off the bench and went up to it.
Not saying the conversation wasn't good. Just that I think you need to give her more space to meet you. You say you know this will take time; then you need to start ignoring her looks and ACTUALLY take this time to work on yourself.
