Give it more time, and definitely don't go over there. I guarantee you, he's thinking about you. He's probably telling himself lies, and doesn't know what's up. OW must have pretty low self-esteem. He cancelled her holiday plans last minute to be with you, then she just accepted him back. Clearly she has no DB skills! This A will NOT last.

We'll all come over to your house Saturday night at 7. Turn on all the lights, play some music, and we'll whoop it up so loud he'll hear it. Then make sure all the recyclable beer and wine bottles are on the curb for trash day. Or borrow a big monster truck from a friend and leave it parked in your driveway for 3 days. He'll notice.


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat