Just re-read my post - SOOOO wish the edit button was still around!
I just made those who read it really confused. At FIRST, my wife just wanted to rescind the divorce. She still would do that. The lawyer said it wouldn't cost any more/less to just do a stay on the filing, and we'd have 4-5 months to work on things, to be 100% sure.
I did ask how sure she was that she wanted to work on us, that this new path was the path she wanted. She said yes, it's what she wants. No hesitation. So, I figured it wouldn't hurt to do the stay, and then I have a way out. It shows that I'm not ready to go back to the old 'us'.
M46, EXWW46 M15 T17 D20, S19, D13 M - Addiction since 1998 W EA/PA #1 2013/2014 W EA #2 June 2015... BD 1 Big D talk 9/15 BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15 Served D 1/22/16 Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)