I really need your help, everyone. Those who have been on the other side of the D, or no D, but reconciling. What do I do? DR was my roadmap for the most part, with lots of Christian love in there, and now, I really don't want to screw this up.
My advice is to not show her you are eager to jump back into it again. If you do, she will put you through this again. Has she asked for another chance, or does she simply assume you will be more than happy to resume the position of her H?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!