Thanks, I really didn't look at it that way. I feel that I have turned it over to God. I have detached from her since she has been gone. She has texted me but I have only texted her to say Merry Christmas, Happy New year and once I text her saying I have mail for you and will be forwarding it to you. I hope you are ok. She comes back with Thanks I'm Great! I know she isnt great because our daughter has told me she isnt and a friend of hers reached out to me telling me to pray for her because she is not herself. I thought that I at least needed to occasionally respond to her but I haven't talked to her in over 2 weeks at all. Since she left only a handful of text with about 90 percent initiated by her. When she texted me I was very to the point, one or two word responses. I have a final divorce hearing at the end of the week. Then all we have to do is wait until October for it to be final. She has moved very quick on this. I am just hurting so much and trying to detach. I feel that I have done pretty good but I know others will say do it completely. It is in God's hands and I believe that he will do amazing things in his time. If it wasn't for my faith I would have given up on her a long time ago.
