otw,
I haven't replied to that one yet.

I did reply to the school one and mediation. I said " are you saying you will not agree to D4 staying in the school she is already attending and this must be discussed with a mediator?"

She said "I am saying I am not sure that D4 staying at her current school is best for her. I would like to discuss with a mediator. Things have changed upon discovering that you are drinking again."

I haven't responded yet but I'm thinking "I am not drinking again, currently drinking or allowing it to manage my life. This is a very stressful time for both of us. I have realized I have never learned to effectively manage my feelings and emotions in a healthy way. You recently stated that you would like us to start counseling, to be better, to be great. I have already sought help and began counseling to help navigate this very difficult time"

What does everyone think?


Me 40
WW 41
D 4
S 12
S 14
BD 6.16.2015
W stopped wearing ring 9.4.15
W Filed Divorce 9.14.15
My ring off 11.15.15
D finalized 12.18.15
WXW (wayward X wife) moved out 1.28.16 got her own place